The Rising Beyond Podcast
Are you ready to thrive as you are coming out of a toxic or abusive relationship? Join Sybil Cummin, a licensed professional counselor who has specialized in working with victims and survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse for over a decade and runs a membership community for women on their healing journey. On this podcast you will finally feel understood and your experience will be validated as you learn tangible strategies to handle family court, coparent with your abuser, improve your connection with your children, and heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence.
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Ep 119: The Typical Patterns of Abuse: Why They Continue to Work Post Separation with Nova Gibson
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What is a typical pattern or blueprint for the relationship with a narcissist?
Love Bombing happens first. Followed by devaluation. And then concludes with the Discard.
And this cycle happens over and over again within the relationship leaving the victim confused, hurt and willing to do anything just to experience the good times again.
But does this pattern happen after a victim separates from their partner?
In this episode of The Rising Beyond Podcast, Nova Gibson and I discuss this pattern and how it changes and what it looks like during post separation abuse. Nova shares her insight on why this patterns works so well for the narcissist before, during, and after the relationship.
Nova Gibson is director, founder and primary counsellor of Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service and the go-to expert on narcissistic abuse recovery in Australia. She is the author of Australia's best-selling practical self help book of 2023, 'Fake Love - Understanding and healing from narcissistic abuse published by Harpercollins and the host of her own Podcast, Fake Love and Flying Monkeys. Nova has helped thousands of clients in Australia and around the world with one-on-one professional support. She lives in Brisbane, Australia.
The Secret to Speaking Up: Practical Strategies of Negotiation During Post Separation Abuse Workshop | November 14th, 2024 12 to 1:30 p.m., MST
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- Clarity on the Challenges: Understand the emotional and legal obstacles you’ll face as you speak up, and how to prepare for them.
- Confidence to Use Your Voice: Learn how to find your voice amidst trauma responses.
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